As a designated fem at birth and Autistic person and man... Thank you for this!!!!

Oftentimes women and many other resilient marginalised communities are told by society to "love yourself", to ""work on"" themselves and more, but when they unconditionally accept and appreciate themselves and when they utilise what personally anchors them to their own realities, they're told the opposite of "no not like that!!!", "why are you so confident?!", "lower your ego", "why do you love yourself more than others?!" and more.

It's like society thinks that our and their senses of their own selves are a joke for society to play with...